Tag: self-discovery

  • An Ibadan Girl’s Guide to Career Evolution

    An Ibadan Girl’s Guide to Career Evolution

    I have to warn you – this is, in fact, a guide. Now that we have gotten that out of the way, let’s get started. A few years ago, I chose to restart my life. What this meant for me was putting behind a career I had spent four years building and starting on a…

  • An Ibadan Girl’s Guide to Getting Started

    An Ibadan Girl’s Guide to Getting Started

    While I have constantly visited this blog over the past months, the last time I wrote here was February. What I have been doing since then is getting started. “Getting started?” you might ask. I have, after all, had this blog for almost two years. But yes, getting started again. Which is as important, if…

  • An Ibadan Girl’s Guide to Your Dreams

    An Ibadan Girl’s Guide to Your Dreams

    I think my generation is pretty focused on huge achievements and hitting goals. That is a pretty awesome thing to be focused on but I sometimes wonder if we tend to sacrifice longer-term, sustainable achievements on the altar of shiny, glossy, immediate rewards that kind of look like achievements. There has been an ongoing debate…

  • AN IBADAN GIRL’S GUIDE TO BEING FEMINIST

    I knew what it meant to be feminist. Or I thought I knew.  It meant to be a man-hating, God-hating rabble-rousing shrew who will never find a man willing to marry her because no man will ever want to put up with ‘that’. ‘That’ being a word spat out disdainfully at the folly of the…